This post is written in Telugu (language).edhi manchi? edhi chedu? edhi thappu? edhi oppu?
Manaki thelisindhe manchi, manam chesedhi oppu anukovatam lo thappemi ledhu. Alage itharula vishayam lo kooda vaallaki thelisindhi vaallaki manchi anipinchachu, vaallu chesedhi vaallaki oppu anipinchachu. Prathi okkaru oke laaga, leka manalaaga alochinchali ani anukolemu kadha. Manchi ayina chedu ayina, thappu ayina oppu ayina vaari vaari abhiprayalu, samayam-sandharbham, paristhithulu batti, vaari alochana vidhanam maruthundhi. ee prakriyalo eeroju manaki thappu/chedu anipinchedhi, repu oppu/manchi anipinchachu; ee roju nachani vyakthi repu nachanuvachu.
Manam putti, manaki ooha thelisinappati nunchi prathi roju edho okati (oka vishayam) nerchukuntam. Perigina parisaralu, mana thalli-thandrula pempakam, guruvulu cheppe vidhya-budhulu, bandhuvulu, snehithulu, peddalu, samajamlo, jeeevithamlo jarigina sangatanalu, ila prathi okka chota, prathi okka saari, prathi okkari deggera, yedho okati, yentho kontha nerchukuntune untam. Andhuchetha prathi okkaru nirdhisthamayina abhiprayalatho oka alochana vidhanam erparuchukuni, vaati adharanga jeevitham sagisthamu. Veeti adharanga edhi manchi/oppu, edhi chedu/thappu ani pariseelinche ingitha gnanam (common sense) penchukuntam.
udhaharanaki madhyapanam, dhoomapanam (drinking alcohol, smoking cigarattes) chedu alavatlu antaru chaala mandhi. ee alavatlu unde varini asahyinchukune vaalu kooda untaru. evari alavatlu vaarivi, inkokari alavtla gurinchi manam endhuku vaarini dveshinchali, leka varu chedda vyakthulu anukovali? aa alavatlu undatam valla vaariki chedu kaani, manaki kaadhu kadha. ala kakunda aa alavatuni itharula payina rudhatam, leka itharulaki ibandhi kaliginchadam thappakunda thappe. naa drushtilo edhuti manishini badha pettakunda chesey pani edhayina oppe, padhi mandhiki upayoge pade pani edhayina manche.
Alage ithanu (palaana vyakthi) manchivadu kadu, ithanu naaku nachaledhu ani manalo manam, mana snehithulatho antoo untam. Oka manishi naaku nachakapothe adhi naa samasya (problem) kaani athani samasya kaadhu. Endhukante naa alochana vidhanam, manushulni pareeseelinche vidhanam batti oka vyakthi naaku nachaledhu, adhi kevalam naa abhiprayam. Kevalam okari abhiprayam adharanga oka manishi cheddavadu ani ela anukuntam?
prathi okkarilonu manchi chedulu untayi. Prathi okkaru edho okasari edho oka thappu chesi untaru. Edhuti vaari abhiprayalani, alochana vidhanaanni kinchapariche hakku manaki ledhu. Manam choosina jeevitham lo, manam thelusukunna prapancham lo manam nerchukundhi gorantha, nerchukovalsindhi, thelusukovalsindhi kondantha. Ala yerojuki aaroju prathi okkari deggara, prathi okka chota, edho okati entho kontha nerchukuntoo mana alochana vidhanam, abhiprayalanu savarinchukuntoo undali, anthe.
Kosamerupu: Eeroju naaku ila anipinchindhi kabatti ila raasanu, repu inkola anipinche avakasam undhi.
Chivari maata: Kevalam naa abhiprayalu, alochana vidhanam, naa jeevitham lo jarigina sangatanala adharanga nenu idhi raasanu. idhi evarini udhesinchidhi kaadhu, evari abhiprayalani vyathirekinchalani kadhu. Oka vela meeku ala anipisthe kshaminchagelaru.

