నేను, "నా" అనుకునే నా వాళ్ళు

This is about you, me and everyone of us. Every person has their own world with few people around them and some of them might mean the world to the person. You always like and need to have your loved ones like your family, relatives or friends without whom you can't imagine yourself. I always feel no person in this world can be loner, everyone needs someone.

mana life lo mana anukune vallu manaki chaala (kodhi) mandhi untaru. Family lo parents, sisters, brothers ila andharam oke intlo untam, andhuke automatic ga chinnapati nunchi aa bonding develop avuthundhi, asalu vaalu lekunda undalemu anipisthundhi. alage inti deggara, school lo, college lo kalise kondharu manatho perigi, chadhuvukuntoo, adukuntoo manaku chaala manchi friends avutharu. asalu manamu friends ni ela choose chesukuntamo kooda okkosaari manaki theleedhu, it just happens. chinnapudu anthaga alochinchamemo, kaani koncham peddaga ayyaka, college lo kontha mandhi manchi friends avutharu. May be ikkada koncham choosi friends ni select chesukuntamemo. Kaani, naaku thelisi andharu manchi vaale, atleast mana chuttoo thirige vallu, manatho kalisi chaduvukune vallu general ga andharu manchi vaalle. kaani endhuko ala kontha mandhi tho ala set ayipotham.

ila puttinappati nunchi mana jeevitham loni vividha bhaagaalalo enno sambandhalu (Relations) yerpaduthayi. raktha samabandhaalu, inka sneham, pelli, ithara bandhuthvala valla sambhandhalulu yerpaduthayi. ye sambandham ayina okari meedha inkoriki nammakam, gouravam, prema, sanithyam, hakku untayi, undali.

ika prathi sambandham lonu evo oka samasyalu vasthayi, adhi sarva sadhaaranam. abhipraaya bedhaalu, swaardhalu, eershalu, dveshaalu, anumaanaalu-apaarthaalu, chivariki oka chinna maata karanamga kooda; ila enno kaaranaala valla samsyalu vasthayi.samasya vachinantha maathrana sambandham thegipovaala? idharu vidipovaala? evari daarina vaallu vellipovaala? ala ayithe aa sambandhaaniki arthamae ledhu.

oka manishi neeku nachchatam nachchakapovatam nee samasya, nachachaka pothe vadhileyyi, akkditho marachipo. kaani oka manishini pariseelinchi, aa manishi neeku nachchaaka, oka sambandham yerpaddaaka, konni yellu gadichaaka eeroju neeku aa manishi nachchaledhante aa thappu neelo undho aa manishi lo undho? thappakunda neelone undhi. ayithe aa manishi payina nee modati abhiprayam thappu ayyi undali; leka ippudu evo kaaranala valla kothaga yeparuchukunna abhiprayam thappu ayyi undali. challa saarlu rendodhe nijamavuthindhi.
ala kaadhu naa thappemi ledhu aa manishilone marpu vachindhi, munupu laaga leru, maata lo, pravarthanalo theda vachindhi, inka vagaira vagaira karanala valla nachchaledhu antava.
oka vela nijanga nee thappu lekapothe, sare. ayithe maarpu anedhi sahajam, andharu eppudu okaylaaga undali naaku kavalasinattu undali ante kudharadhu kadha. samayam, sandharabham, paristhitulu, parisaralu, avasaralu, alochanalu, manishilo marpu thesthayi. antha maathraana adhi thappu ante ela, oka vela aa manishi nijanga edhayina thappu chesina, thelisi chesina, theliyaka chesina, adhi endhuku ala cheyyalsi vachindhi, paristhitulu ento, vivaranga thelusuko. nee jeevitham antha pramukhyatha ichina manishi oorike endhuku thappu chesthadu, endhuku maaripothadu, oka sari alochinchi, matladukoni, samasyalu parishkaaram chesukovachu kadha.
neeku spashtatha unte kashtamayina, nashtamayina ishtam ga maaripothayi, badhalayina sare easy ga maanipothayi.

My friend srikanth explains better how we measure people, and easily we can change our opinions on someone. We can never know a person completely. But when you believe in a person and you have considered this person as an important part of you life, then why do you have to worry about re-judging this person.

asalu manam ila endhuku alochincham....

"okkasari naaku evarayina nachithe, nenu vaallani nammithe, etuvanti paristhithi vachina nenu vaallani oorike vadhulukonu, vaala meedha antha easy ga kopam thechukolenu. vallu edhayina thappu chesaru ani thelisina guddiga aa vishayaanni nammanu, vaallani nammuthanu. oka vela vaallu nijanga thappu chesina, nannu badha pettina ardham chesukuntanu. aakhariki nannu chepputho kottina feel avvanu. oka vela vaallu thappu chesthe dhaniki edho oka reason undi untundhi, lekapoyina parledhu mana vaalle kadha emayipothundhi, prapancham aagipothundha, naa jeevitham nasanamayipothundha. nenu oka manishiki naa life lo antha importance ichchaaka, aa manishi valla entha pedha thappu jarigina adhi aa relationship mundhu chinnagane kanipisthundhi."

There will be differences in every relationship, but none of them are unsolvable.